Hey Sleep-seeker!

This is a safe space, there are no bad habits, there are no bad babies, it is not your fault - come on, let's burn that baby book and ignite your instincts!

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I am not just another stranger on the internet claiming to have a quick-fix, one-size-fits-all solution to all your sleepy situations.

I also was once very sleep-deprived and desperate to try anything that would just help me feel like a human again.

So, I fell victim to fear-based marketing tactics, the sleep training industry thrived off of my vulnerability, it knew exactly how to target me to make a quick buck.

But, it all felt wrong, I couldn’t follow through with their ‘gentle’ methods, it was brutal as heck, so I said screw it, and just like that me and my babe became sleep-training dropouts.

And I am so glad we did, because I found out that there is so much beauty in honoring your child’s biological best, making changes with responsiveness, you can enhance the connection and relationship with your child whilst working towards settled sleep.

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Wondering if I can help you?

If the thought of being told to ignore your child crying, keeping an impossibly strict schedule that was built for Bob in Bloemfontein, or having to move a chair around a room whilst denying eye contact gives you the Hibbie Jibbies – you are in the right place.

So, if you need someone who:

won’t make you feel guilty for listening to your baby
wants to work with what already works for your family
will take the time & effort to create a custom solution that is sustainable
doesn’t make empty promises, but teaches you to listen to your own instincts…

Well, then we will be a great fit!

Let me tell you all about all of the ways in which I offer support…

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Client love letters

It really has been the most valuable and worthwhile journey. AND, in amongst all of the learning and growing, we FINALLY found sleep. Lexi and I are even more connected and in tune with each other, and with a few very gentle tweaks to our routines, she now sleeps in her own bed, in her own room, and ‪from 8 pm to 6h30am‬. There was no 'training' or isolation involved, only patience and extra connection. My only regret in this whole process was that I didn't contact Kearin sooner! Thank you so, so much, Kearin. Your unique, gentle, kind, loving and family centred approach to sleep and wellbeing is invaluable and we feel so blessed to have had you with us on our journey.

Jess, Mama to Lex

So our chats began, her help & guidance not only with Ivy’s sleep but with taking care of myself has completely transformed the way I see “mothering”. How important self-care is for my own good & for my daughters. Motherhood is a journey, a very special one. It’s a privilege, it isn’t always easy but it is so rewarding. We got Ivy into a beautiful sleep environment, a peaceful one, where she is happy & content in her own space. Of course, there are days that are harder but all it took was love & patience, a couple of days of us reassuring & comforting Ivy with her new sleep ways. She now is back in her cot & sleeping 6:30pm-6:00am. There was no hysteria, there was no isolation, there was no abandonment. It was all a process that took trust.

Tasha, Mama to Ivy

So, it turns out sleeping issues do not have to be A Huge Big Deal! There is actually no need to traumatise any children or get twisted into knots if you are able to get to the bottom of what your littles need to grow into a workable sleep routine. With Kearin by your side, this is 100% possible. You learn so much about the biology and psychology of sleep and walk away a lot more confident in your role as a tiny-human guardian. Highly recommended for anyone who gets the jeebies at the mere thought of 'sleep training' and would like the option of still whipping out a boob when their baby cries at night without feeling like they are 'cheating' somehow (pfffft).

Anna-Bet Stemmet

Kearin equips you with information that not only helps with sleep but to understand every stage of your child, his/ her personality, your role as a parent and you as an individual to look AFTER yourself and the list continues. Because yes, it all plays an intricate roll in the beautiful journey. You really feel more self-assured in your role as a parent (and naturally your baby as well) and yes, you do sleep again : ) Kearin, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for equipping us as parents with the necessary ‘tools’ to enjoy all stages of parenthood, including sleep!.

Nelia, Mama to baby J